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More and less frequent sex, suspicious phone calls, strange text messages - are often signs that a man betrays. Statistics show that nearly 30 percent. Poles admit to treason. - Our biology, so we constructed, we are not inclined to that, to function in a single connection. It is, after all, that people are trying to operate in them, is the result of the socialization of our behavior - at least in European culture. Because after all, there are communities, cultures, where a man has more than one partner, and this is accepted. By contrast, in Poland is dominated by the Catholic religion, according to which we should begin sexual life after marriage, and as we are already in a relationship, we should be faithful in this relationship. Something else is treated as a sin. This standard is largely religious translates into our lives, means that loyalty is regarded as a value - says Professor Zbigniew Izdebski, sexologist, a family counselor and teacher. Huge impact on our behavior in adult life is family. If married life had value, that in life we try to preserve it. And as statistics show, most of us it works. But life can be full of temptations and almost 30 percent. Polish men can not resist them. Why is this happening? Why does a man zdradzaa1 Erotic fascination - the love between the partners has changed, after a certain time is no longer so intense and exciting as ever. It often happens that a man feels that he loves his partner, but is sexually fascinated by somebody else. Experimentation, curiosity, fantasies - the partners are unable to communicate, to view crept routine, such as sex once a week at the stop light zgaszonym meet the man. He wants to try something different, I want to have sex in some unusual circumstances or location. "Do not betray yet, but I think that once this happens. I do not write about here in relation to maturity, etc., because the reason is quite different. I'm six years after the wedding and simply in a world of sex once every two months, and that great efforts have come at a price is not enough "- said the father of the family on the forum. However, Snorri writes: "He once betrayed, and I know how it tastes. It's such a bitter sweet chocolate candy drenched. A2nie never do that now, because for a brief moment of pleasure lose everything. Sometimes curiosity overcomes common sense, and then starts to romp with the devil. " Test attractiveness - he thinks that is no longer as attractive to your partner, as it once was. It seems to him that the test of his manhood may be having sex with another woman, who proves to him, is there for someone attractive, will show whether a woman interested in him. Difficulties in sexual life - at some stage in life a man may happen to erectile dysfunction. Instead, go to the doctor, talk with a specialist, the man thinks: "I have no partner leads, take a look at the other side." - This is not a good method to diagnose erectile dysfunction, it is better to choose a doctor. Some are not very assertive - even though the man that wants to be loyal, reveals in a rather unusual situation, such as during the event a8integracyjnej - colleague from work, which the man had never treated in terms of desire, it turns out that it is interested, including sexually a man can not refuse her. Not planned this, did not want to, and later regrets very much. - It may seem unlikely, immature, funny that some people opt for such relationships, because they can not say 'no'. However, some women skillful use - said prof. Izdebski. "A month ago I told my wife that I betrayed her with a colleague from work, but I love my wife and I know that I did wrong," - writes in the forum sad. Living in a triangle, which is not wiemya7 Nowadays, more and more often appears in the phenomenon of 'triangle of life. " However, it is not that the partner meets someone else secretly and having sex. Professor Izdebski says that very often we live in a triangle, which we did not end so we are aware. Here's the situation: a man feels tired compound unattractive. Therefore, the web pages looking for anonymous sex or someone who you could pofantazjować, talk about their desires. Such talk causes sexual excitement. Then a man loves excited with his partner. So in reality it is: a partner, and partner, and this third person who caused the excitement in a man. Be vigilant Very rarely can detect betrayal. While adultery is granted to almost every third man is only 4 percent. Polish women are aware that their partner betrays. - Although the Poles betray, they do it quite skillfully, if you can call it a betrayal of science. When the woman should "light up the red light?": A4 • cohabitation is increasingly rare - though so far the man had a much greater desire for sex, • there are certain expectations about sex, where previously there were none • partner spends too much time at work, business meetings or on the Internet, • a man begins to take care of yourself too, • phones appear dull, the partner does not want us to answer the phone, • come on his cell suspicious text message. Not the urge to suspect. Let's not paranoid. Not przeszukujmy pocket, does not check calls from your mobile phone. However, if only we have any suspicions, we talk about them with your partner. - Undoubtedly, betrayal is a symptom of the crisis. This is not a good situation. Dr. Michaela Wisłocka talked about this, that women do not react too emotionally in a situation where it appears that a man betrays. If it were not packaged and staged their suitcases into the corridor. You may find that this is not the right thing. I think that the crisis of betrayal may be a pretext in relation to this, to me explain some things and may in the future to build something good, maybe even better. Application test of fidelity to man is not very effective because the appearance of sperm in his underwear does not need to explicitly provide for odbytym sexual relationship with another woman. Sperm can come eg from masturbation. However, the analysis of details and habits przyzwyczaień donego you can be the basis for the application of Fidelity Test (also called Sperm Test). lTest Fidelity is also under the trade names |